So for about 6 months I was casually dating this guy but I just never felt it was more than friendship so I told him that I thought we should be friends and today I see that we cannot even be superficial friends online and this bugs the shit out of me! I think we kissed once and it didn't go any further than a little peck but now we can't be even be facebook friends??? I mean sheesh! I am frustrated and I don't know why this is bugging me aside from the fact that I genuinely liked him as a person just not as a boyfriend.
I guess that is what I get for dating a boy 3 years younger than me. Besides with the way my life plays out he will find someone soon to fall in love with. I seem to be good luck for that sort of thing you date me and it won't work out and then the next person you get with you stay with for a while. It's kind of like that movie Good Luck Chuck with Dane Cook except I don't intend to sleep with a bunch of guys so they can find their spouse.
Well whatever I guess I just need to get over it. You can't be friends with them all, huh?
Friday, May 29, 2009
Wednesday, May 27, 2009
Myron Rolle!
You may be asking who is this person I titled my blog after, please read the article linked below to find out more!
http://sports.yahoo.com/nfl/news?slug=jc-rollerhodes052609&prov=yhoo&type=lgns
I am so impressed by this man's drive that I had to share the story. He is 22 years old, a recent college grad, and athlete that could go to the NFL but instead he is going to Oxford studying to by a neurosurgeon!!! But he is going to stay in shape so that he can try to be in the NFL 2010 draft. I just think this is awesome, he has his head on right knows what he wants and is going for it!
In the article it states when he was looking for colleges he didn't just meet with the football staff but all the academic staff so that everyone would know what he wanted and were on the same page! This is the kind of person we need playing sports in the majors!!
I am so happy to read this kind of story vs the ones about contract disputes or criminal activities that normally fill up the sports pages. Go Myron! I really hope all your dreams come true!
http://sports.yahoo.com/nfl/news?slug=jc-rollerhodes052609&prov=yhoo&type=lgns
I am so impressed by this man's drive that I had to share the story. He is 22 years old, a recent college grad, and athlete that could go to the NFL but instead he is going to Oxford studying to by a neurosurgeon!!! But he is going to stay in shape so that he can try to be in the NFL 2010 draft. I just think this is awesome, he has his head on right knows what he wants and is going for it!
In the article it states when he was looking for colleges he didn't just meet with the football staff but all the academic staff so that everyone would know what he wanted and were on the same page! This is the kind of person we need playing sports in the majors!!
I am so happy to read this kind of story vs the ones about contract disputes or criminal activities that normally fill up the sports pages. Go Myron! I really hope all your dreams come true!
Wednesday, May 20, 2009
Crazy Neighbor attack!
So Saturday I was sitting at home alone, the monster was with his dad's family, and there is an obnoxious knocking on my door, thinking its one of the neighborhood kids wanting the monster I get up to answer it. A child would have been so much better than what I got...the crazy lady comes barging in my house frantically locking the door behind her.
What happened? I asked her. She proceeds to tell me her son is with her family (whom she is not allowed to see b/c of her significant other) and as soon as the kid was gone the significant other (SO) started berating her (my word, def not hers) and he spit on her.
As she sits down on the couch to cry or vent or I don't know interrupt my perfectly peaceful Saturday alone I see her opening a cooler bag of beer. She pops the top and settles into my couch. This woman keeps getting crazier and crazier. As she is sitting on my couch she says she is leaving him and starts making calls. She finds a place to stay for the night but doesn't have a way over there b/c her car doesn't have tags and is no longer at the house. Gee do you see where this is going???? I offer to drive her where ever. Turns out the place isn't too far away so its fine but before I could drop her off she had to stop by the liquor store and by a case of beer. OMG!
So I get her and some things to a friends house and go about my business.
Sunday she texts me about some things she left at my house and we agree she will get them before she takes her son to school on Monday. When I finally get home on Sunday the monster tells me he sees her at the house. She calls me and tells me she is back and giving him one week. One week to what???
I no longer let the monster in that house the boys can either play at my house or outside but he is not going to play in their house with those crazy people! ARG!
I am now of 2 mindsets both of which make her crazy! She is either a drama queen and its not that bad and she just wants attention or it is that bad but she isn't willing to live with her parents and not drink, smoke, and wear little clothes to give her son a better life. I am so annoyed right now and have no desire to deal with her anymore. I know about batter women syndrome and don't discount that but she was out! her son was out and she had plans to get the last of her things why then did she go back? he didn't know where she was and he didn't leave the house Sat night, I know I was home and waiting for it???? Maybe he found her Sunday I don't know but I think she had enough people around her to help her, why would she go back. That is why I think it has to do with being able to drink and smoke living with him and she cannot do this with her parents!
Enough! I am done!
What happened? I asked her. She proceeds to tell me her son is with her family (whom she is not allowed to see b/c of her significant other) and as soon as the kid was gone the significant other (SO) started berating her (my word, def not hers) and he spit on her.
As she sits down on the couch to cry or vent or I don't know interrupt my perfectly peaceful Saturday alone I see her opening a cooler bag of beer. She pops the top and settles into my couch. This woman keeps getting crazier and crazier. As she is sitting on my couch she says she is leaving him and starts making calls. She finds a place to stay for the night but doesn't have a way over there b/c her car doesn't have tags and is no longer at the house. Gee do you see where this is going???? I offer to drive her where ever. Turns out the place isn't too far away so its fine but before I could drop her off she had to stop by the liquor store and by a case of beer. OMG!
So I get her and some things to a friends house and go about my business.
Sunday she texts me about some things she left at my house and we agree she will get them before she takes her son to school on Monday. When I finally get home on Sunday the monster tells me he sees her at the house. She calls me and tells me she is back and giving him one week. One week to what???
I no longer let the monster in that house the boys can either play at my house or outside but he is not going to play in their house with those crazy people! ARG!
I am now of 2 mindsets both of which make her crazy! She is either a drama queen and its not that bad and she just wants attention or it is that bad but she isn't willing to live with her parents and not drink, smoke, and wear little clothes to give her son a better life. I am so annoyed right now and have no desire to deal with her anymore. I know about batter women syndrome and don't discount that but she was out! her son was out and she had plans to get the last of her things why then did she go back? he didn't know where she was and he didn't leave the house Sat night, I know I was home and waiting for it???? Maybe he found her Sunday I don't know but I think she had enough people around her to help her, why would she go back. That is why I think it has to do with being able to drink and smoke living with him and she cannot do this with her parents!
Enough! I am done!
Tuesday, April 21, 2009
Miss USA
So I watched this pageant Sunday night, not b/c its something I normally do but b/c the kid got into it while at the crazy neighbors house. I watched the last hour so I got to see all those lovely questions the contestants were asked and what not. This is what I observed along with my friend who was over at my house at the time:
Miss California has said she feels she came in second b/c she stated that her opinion is that marriage should be between a man and a woman. Perez Hilton has said he didn't vote for her b/c of this. I applaud her for sticking to her views while I disagree vehemently she has the right to her opinion. However I don't think she didn't win all b/c of this. I didn't like her b/c I (along with my friend) thought she was over confident and cocky!! When she was called as one of the final 5 she did a little arm thing while saying yes and didn't turn to the lady on her side like all the others did for hugs. Then when she joined her fellow finalists she didn't speak to them either. She was just rude looking. When she was standing with Miss North Carolina she wouldn't look at her and wouldn't offer her luck, Miss California just looked like a bitch!!! On top of all that her evening gown wasn't cute at all!!
Other observations: Miss North Carolina was the first one asked questions by the hosts and was given some ridiculous question about the world while all the other girls got personal questions.
Then they were each allowed to pick a number of the judge who was to ask them questions. Miss Arizona didn't even answer her question! she spoke in circles about being proud to be in a country where you could pick your political side??? I believe her question was on universal health care!!! She came in 2nd runner up!!
So what does that say about the competition??? The chick who spoke her mind albeit not a popular thought came in 1st runner up and the chick who didn't answer her question at all came in 2nd runner up. I think Miss California is a lot like the Miss Texas character in Miss Congeniality who thought she was going to win and didn't so got into a cat fight over the crown.
Just had to share b/c I am annoyed with Miss California today.
Miss California has said she feels she came in second b/c she stated that her opinion is that marriage should be between a man and a woman. Perez Hilton has said he didn't vote for her b/c of this. I applaud her for sticking to her views while I disagree vehemently she has the right to her opinion. However I don't think she didn't win all b/c of this. I didn't like her b/c I (along with my friend) thought she was over confident and cocky!! When she was called as one of the final 5 she did a little arm thing while saying yes and didn't turn to the lady on her side like all the others did for hugs. Then when she joined her fellow finalists she didn't speak to them either. She was just rude looking. When she was standing with Miss North Carolina she wouldn't look at her and wouldn't offer her luck, Miss California just looked like a bitch!!! On top of all that her evening gown wasn't cute at all!!
Other observations: Miss North Carolina was the first one asked questions by the hosts and was given some ridiculous question about the world while all the other girls got personal questions.
Then they were each allowed to pick a number of the judge who was to ask them questions. Miss Arizona didn't even answer her question! she spoke in circles about being proud to be in a country where you could pick your political side??? I believe her question was on universal health care!!! She came in 2nd runner up!!
So what does that say about the competition??? The chick who spoke her mind albeit not a popular thought came in 1st runner up and the chick who didn't answer her question at all came in 2nd runner up. I think Miss California is a lot like the Miss Texas character in Miss Congeniality who thought she was going to win and didn't so got into a cat fight over the crown.
Just had to share b/c I am annoyed with Miss California today.
Saturday, March 28, 2009
Crazy neighbor
How is it that I always meet the crazy ones? The monster met a new friend 2 weeks or so ago and it was an interesting meeting with the mom to start with and I thought she was odd. The monster comes running in the house telling me a mom wants to meet me so I go outside to meet her and she immediately hugs me and yells "friends, I have friends". Ok fine she is odd but the child is nice and he and the monster get along well so I let it go.
Well today she calls me to "vent" telling me all crap about her significant other who is mentally abusive but never in front of the child. Right b/c kids can never tell when the shit is hitting the fan. So her significant other tells her how stupid she is and has isolated her from her friends and family and on and on. Holy Cow! She is in therapy which is why I think she is able to talk about what's going on but I don't think she really gets it. She thinks that b/c she has spent a year and a half living with him in his house that she is committed to him and doesn't want to start over. WTF??? get out!!!
Now I am conflicted do I continue to let the monster hang out over there? the child is well behaved so I don't want to punish the kids, they generally enjoy each others company but I don't think I want the monster exposed to the crazy stuff. I am going to have to talk to him to see if he has noticed anything, he would normally tell me about such stuff but now I am thinking he may not tell me if he is worried he might be able to play with the child.
I am worried if I try to help this woman, which is my nature, that I could be in physical danger b/c the guy she lives with may be off his rocker!!! ARG!
Well today she calls me to "vent" telling me all crap about her significant other who is mentally abusive but never in front of the child. Right b/c kids can never tell when the shit is hitting the fan. So her significant other tells her how stupid she is and has isolated her from her friends and family and on and on. Holy Cow! She is in therapy which is why I think she is able to talk about what's going on but I don't think she really gets it. She thinks that b/c she has spent a year and a half living with him in his house that she is committed to him and doesn't want to start over. WTF??? get out!!!
Now I am conflicted do I continue to let the monster hang out over there? the child is well behaved so I don't want to punish the kids, they generally enjoy each others company but I don't think I want the monster exposed to the crazy stuff. I am going to have to talk to him to see if he has noticed anything, he would normally tell me about such stuff but now I am thinking he may not tell me if he is worried he might be able to play with the child.
I am worried if I try to help this woman, which is my nature, that I could be in physical danger b/c the guy she lives with may be off his rocker!!! ARG!
Wednesday, March 4, 2009
Someone needs a life in WV...
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/29508066/?GT1=43001
As I was skimming the headlines today I can across this story and had to share. I cannot believe that this congress critter had nothing better to do with his time than try to ban barbie, now this is what is wrong with our government. ARG!
As I was skimming the headlines today I can across this story and had to share. I cannot believe that this congress critter had nothing better to do with his time than try to ban barbie, now this is what is wrong with our government. ARG!
Tuesday, March 3, 2009
The Bachelor
I do not watch this show b/c I think the people on these and other shows are ridiculous. But I am an admitted TV junkie so I read about this crap b/c its everywhere (well at least on all my favorite sites). I knew this guy was dumped by the Bachelorette a season or so ago and was a favorite, I also knew he had a kid. I have a real problem with him putting his son through this!!! Maybe I am too much of a prude with my child but I refuse to introduce my child to anyone after such a short time! I try very hard to keep those kind of relationships away from the monster until I know the guy is going to be around for a little while b/c I don't want a ton of men in and out of his life! I think its wrong.
Ok off my soapbox and back to this duchebag! I love the yahoo thing (because I don't know what to call it) prime time in no time. Its hysterical and gives you just enough of the crap to make me laugh. So I checked it out today and this stupid man was all over it. I watched his proposal to girl A, his dismissal of girl B for girl A. Then he dismissed girl A and tells her he wants to try things with girl B. WTF??? He told girl B he was in love with girl A, does he know what he wants??? probably not so why in the hell would he involve his son in this nonsense? Why would he do this to girl A and why is girl B ok with this??? He told you he loved someone else but ooppps he was mistaken??? Well what is going to happen now is he going to change his mind and go hang out with bachelorette who also made a play for him in the season finale?? I mean come on now, what is it about this guy? I saw a guy in flannel flannel and more flannel! granted I only watched clips b/c I cannot stomach those shows unless I am completely making fun of them and at present I have no one to sit with me and laugh.
That is all for now, I am just astonished by this duchebag and had to share but should I be? I think that is more the question I need to answer...why am I astonished and why did I take the time to blog about this? I need a life...
Ok off my soapbox and back to this duchebag! I love the yahoo thing (because I don't know what to call it) prime time in no time. Its hysterical and gives you just enough of the crap to make me laugh. So I checked it out today and this stupid man was all over it. I watched his proposal to girl A, his dismissal of girl B for girl A. Then he dismissed girl A and tells her he wants to try things with girl B. WTF??? He told girl B he was in love with girl A, does he know what he wants??? probably not so why in the hell would he involve his son in this nonsense? Why would he do this to girl A and why is girl B ok with this??? He told you he loved someone else but ooppps he was mistaken??? Well what is going to happen now is he going to change his mind and go hang out with bachelorette who also made a play for him in the season finale?? I mean come on now, what is it about this guy? I saw a guy in flannel flannel and more flannel! granted I only watched clips b/c I cannot stomach those shows unless I am completely making fun of them and at present I have no one to sit with me and laugh.
That is all for now, I am just astonished by this duchebag and had to share but should I be? I think that is more the question I need to answer...why am I astonished and why did I take the time to blog about this? I need a life...
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