So the reason we missed things yesterday was bc the kid had a karate belt test and afterwards we didn't go to the town his dad's family lives in. Why didn't we bc for once I got to stay home on Sat and do things around the house. Which I haven't done in MONTHS it was heavenly!!! But now I have to make up for that today???? ARG. Now taking the kid to the skate park isn't a problem, it will actually help bc he won't have to go to the party lite party and be bored. However getting him to his dad's mom is the problem. I am frustrated when his father calls from across the f--ing country to make me feel bad that I didn't get the child to his family.
Please don't misunderstand I do love his dad's mom, she is an awesome person and great grandmother to my son and a great support for me however sometimes its just hard to get the child over there and his father is no help at all since 3 years ago he decided to leave the state to follow his newest lady friend. Well he married that lady friend and then she went crazy and they split, now rather than return to his childs state he went even further away. So why does he get to make me feel bad if I can't do it all? ARG! The only reason I feel so bad about it is that my son's grandmother is such an awesome person and loves my son unconditionally!
But I still wish I had some help so that I could get everything I need to done...
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Can't imagine the feeling. I have help and still feel like there isn't enough of me to go around! <hugs
Oh and I can't believe that he calls to ask why you don't show up at his mom's house. I would GO OFF on him. You really should do whatever the heck you want without worrying about them. If you want to be home on a Saturday, be home on a Saturday. Nothing is stopping them from coming to YOU!
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