Tuesday, April 5, 2011

Hello...

My name is Betty and I am a criticizer.

At least according to my youngest brother as he so nicely informed me tonight as we were having a discussion. All bc I have a dissenting opinion and voice it I am the criticizer?
The conversation was about another family member, I was trying to get my bro's honest opinion and he said he doesn't want to criticize that is who I am. WTH??? I am concerned about this other family member and want to know if my thoughts are sane. Fine, at least I didn't say any of this to that family member as that would have been rude.

I think that the reason it pissed me off so much is bc when I was little my parents would leave me in charge but when I would tell my brothers not to do something or to do a chore or whatever and they would call me bossy. So my dad jumped on it and for years he called me bossy.

I probably over reacted by getting off the phone with him and slamming my phone down calling him a dickhead. I thought I hung up but my phone is stupid and it didn't hang up so he heard it. I feel bad that he heard me and should apologize but won't.