Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Why, just why....

Today I get a call from the ex, he is about to be evicted with his wife and her three kids and no one will help them, will I?
I know the answer should be a resonding hell no butthead but then I think of the kids and they are innocent in all of this and they don't deserve to be put out on the street. I hate that he did this to me! I feel like I have to try to help him but how, I don't have the money and if I give it to him I am taking away money I would like for my car which helps me drive my son around, for Christmas for my son, for food for my son, ect. I am so annoyed right now b/c I know I need to tell him no but I feel like absolute crap.
He says he has called his family and they have all either not answered or turned him down??? I am tempted to call them myself and ask them b/c if he is lying that will make my no a lot easier to say...
ARG!!! I hate divorce, its never flipping ending, this is ridiculous!

1 comment:

MMC said...

You owe him NOTHING. You need to say no regardless. While it's not the kids fault their parents are complete crap, it's also not yours. You need to separate yourself from that situation and let it be. He needs to man up and deal with the consequences of his actions.